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Wellbeing Services
Are You A Chronic Worrier?
Do You Usually Expect Things To Go Badly?
Do You See The World In ‘All-Or-Nothing’ Terms?
If You Are Anxious Or Depressed About A Current Situation, or a future event.................
Ask Yourself These Questions
- Am I jumping to conclusions? Are my predictions based on facts or just on feelings?
- Is there another way of looking at this? Am I thinking only about the worst-case scenario?
- Am I exaggerating or ‘catastrophising’, e.g. acting as though everything is wrong because of one event or change? Am I getting things out of proportion?
- How much of this is to do with me? Are there other factors? Are some things simply outside of my control?
- Is there only a down side? Could there be any unforeseen positive outcomes or benefits….?
- Am I over-emphasising my weaknesses and forgetting about my strengths and resources? Think of the times when you coped with similar difficulties in the past, and managed to get through them.
- Am I accepting life the way it is - or the way I’d wish it to be?
- What small thing could I do differently to change things for the better?
Strategies for problem-solving:
- Keep it simple- take small steps towards an achievable goal
- Confront your own avoidance- there’s no time like the present
- Err on the side of inclusion- “you don’t know unless you try”
- Reward yourself when you’ve taken a small step towards your goal
- Be patient and expect some setbacks. Things take time.
- Get support for your efforts
