Wellbeing support and Residence Life Team
Residence Life Team
The Residence Life Team are part of Wellbeing services, here to support you living in university residences. They’ll help you settle in and feel at home in Exeter, with information about living in halls and help if things are difficult.
They are your friendly contact at university that knows everything you need to know.
They run events and trips for you to get to know other students and explore Exeter and the surrounding areas and help you when things are difficult.
Follow @exeterreslife – it’s packed full of information about Residence Life events and what’s on in the community. They can recommend places to go, things to do, and how to make the most out of your time here in Exeter. Plus, they have useful information about how things work and the support that is on offer.
What they do
Residence Life can help with any practical questions about your accommodation, worries about living with others, flat disputes, questions about living in Exeter and health and welfare concerns.
Rounds – Student mentors will visit your accommodation every few weeks to check in and see how you are doing. They will knock on your door and introduce themselves and have useful information about what is happening for students.
Full Time Support Staff– Their biggest piece of advice is that, if something is worrying or concerning you, however small, come and have a chat about it early. Not getting on with your flatmates? Concerned that you or someone else in the flat is feeling lonely, isolated, unsure about their course or struggling with their mental health? You don’t have to deal with this on your own, they can provide a safe and confidential space for you to offload your worries and access support. Email or book an appointment with them and get some help.
Second year housing advice – Residence Life work with the Guild and other university departments to provide you with all the information you need for making the right choice for you about your move on accommodation in to the private sector.
Conflict resolution – Sometimes we all find it difficult to know how to deal with conflict. We don’t want to hurt the other person, we don’t want to make it worse, we don’t think that we should be the ones to say something, and we hope that if we ignore it, the problem will just go away. Perhaps society has given us the message to not make a fuss and keep quiet.
The trouble is that the problem doesn’t go away. In fact, if we don’t do something, that thing will keep happening and we might just end up feeling more and more resentful until the frustration accidently comes out in the wrong way.
So, if you are struggling with something relating to other people, they can help.
- Book an appointment to discuss the situation and look at options and additional support.
- If you find having difficult conversations about other people’s behaviour tricky, then they can offer coaching on how to approach this, get your point across and be heard. A skill that will help you throughout life!
- Support a meeting between students so that you can discuss the issue, listen to each other, and come up with a resolution together.
- Escalate to welfare services if the issue relates to a serious concern/ risk to self or others.
Community Building -Events and Exeter Connector – Residence Life events are an opportunity to come along and try something different and potentially meet some new people and build your community in Exeter. You can come on your own or with friends, and everyone will get a warm welcome from their mentors. They have a variety of events, games nights, craft sessions, skills and wellbeing sessions as well as cookery and food events (which are always popular!).
If meeting people in groups at events is not your thing, Exeter Connector is a different way to meet new people at Exeter, building your community from 1:1 or small group interactions with others.
Check out their ‘What’s going on’ page, view this month's calendar below, and follow them at @exeterreslife to find out what’s on.
Trips – Exeter and the surrounding areas are brilliant and we want you to make the most of your home here and explore all the beautiful and cool places on offer. Residence Life trips are discounted to make them affordable and they’re a great opportunity to meet others.
Meet the Team
Residence Life are a mixed team of full-time wellbeing staff and part time student mentors that are here to help you depending on what support you need.
Student mentors are experienced students who have lived in student accommodation previously and can help answer any general questions you have about living in residences. If you have any more serious worries, you can mention this to them, and they can escalate to a staff member.
Alternatively, you can come directly to wellbeing staff via their booking page or by emailing residencelife@exeter.ac.uk
Contact details
You can contact Residence Life for the following:
- To book an appointment, select a time through their online booking system.
- For general enquiries please email them at residencelife@exeter.ac.uk
- You can attend an event and request to speak to a team member.
- You can speak to a mentor on their round as they visit accommodation.
If you are in urgent need of assistance outside our team hours, please call Estate Patrol on 01392 723999. In an emergency, please call 999.
For all enquiries, Residence Life aim to respond in less than 4 working days.
What's on
Residence Life run a variety of events giving you the chance to meet people, try new things and explore the local area. The free and low-cost events include trips, crafts, cooking, animals on campus and more. Come alone or with friends, the Residence Life Mentors will welcome you either way.
Check out our Welcome socials to meet others in your accommodation.
- Full details will be at @exeterreslife on Instagram in the lead up to each event, including which ones are bookable and which ones you can just turn up to.
- As well as being accessible through the Instagram, this is the direct link for the event booking pages.
- If you would like to be emailed with more details about upcoming events, sign up to the Residence Life events mailing list.
Exeter Connector
To get involved with Exeter Connector, fill out the registration form.
More information about Exeter Connector
Events and societies are a great way to meet new people, but what if chatting and meeting people in large groups isn’t for you? Exeter Connector is a different way to meet new people at Exeter, building your community from 1:1 or small group interactions with others.
It’s all about connecting with other students and is aimed at anyone who likes getting to know people through individual or small group conversations.
You will be asked a few questions about yourself including your accommodation area, course and interests. You will be connected with other individuals or small groups of 2-4 students (your choice) and, where possible, we will aim to connect you with students you have something in common with.
We will share your email addresses with each of you so that you can make contact with each other. If you are keen to meet more people, we will offer new connections at regular intervals during the academic year. You can ask to stop being part of this at any time.
Exeter Connector is a way to make connections with other students at the University, and is not designed to be used as a dating service.
How will I be connected with other students?
You tell us some basics like if you want to meet others individually, in small groups or both; or if you only want to meet others of a certain gender. We will then connect you with people who fit these two criteria. You won’t be connected with people who don’t fit these two criteria.
You will also answer a few questions about yourself including your accommodation area, course and interests. We may be able to take these things into account when connecting you with others (this will depend on the number of students registered and the number of previous connections we have sent you).
You will be emailed contact details of the student(s) you have been connected with.
What information about me is shared with other students?
Your name and email address will be emailed to other students we have connected you with. Everything else you have shared on the form is kept private and isn’t shared with other students.
What happens after I have been connected with other students?
Send them a friendly message to introduce yourself and start a conversation with them. You may wish to spend some time getting to know each other over message, or you might want to arrange to meet with them soon after getting in contact.
It is for you to arrange to meet with each other. We don’t organise this for you, but there are a couple of ways we can support this:
- If you would like to meet for a drink on campus, let us know by email and we can send you a £3 voucher to be used at La Touche, Isca Etas, Cross Keys or BARiSCA Coffee Co at Peter Chalk or DH1.
- You are welcome to book a table at one of our Exeter Connector events. At each event, Residence Life Mentors will be there to greet you and offer a free drink. You may just want to sit and chat, or there will also be some games or other icebreaker activities available should you wish to use them; this can provide a little more structure if you prefer.
Will I get on with the people I am connected with?
Who knows! As with meeting anyone in life, you will get on better with some people than others. There are many levels to connecting with other people, and even if you don’t see the person again, you have still got to know someone new.
What is the process around getting sent new connections?
We will send across new connections at regular intervals during the academic year. You don’t need to fill the form out again - you will be sent contact details of new connections in the same way as before.
If you would like to be sent another set of new connection(s) sooner (maybe things didn’t work out with the previous students, they didn’t reply, or you’re just keen to meet more new people), just email us to let us know.
If you no longer want to be part of Exeter Connector, just email us to let us know and we will remove you from the student list.
What to do if a student doesn’t reply to your first message?
There are many reasons the other student(s) may not have replied to your first message yet – they may have been busy, not seen the email yet, or they could be experiencing some anxiety around responding. Be patient, and after 2-3 days you may wish to message again to check they have seen the message.
If you continue not to hear back from the student, then email us to let us know. We may contact the student to check they are ok, and send you details of another connection so that you have someone else to make contact with.
What to do if a student doesn’t show up to an arranged meeting?
Firstly, you may want to drop them a message or call them. They may have had difficulties finding the location or may be there and not realise who you are. They may also be on their way and running a bit late.
If there are any issues with a student not turning up and not contacting you about it, then you can email us to let us know.
How do I cancel or reschedule a meeting I’ve arranged with someone?
As you have arranged the meeting directly with the other student(s), then contact them directly if you need to change your plans!
Support available
You can book an appointment with us to discuss anything in relation to Exeter Connector – whether you’d like an informal chat to better understand how it works, support with building your social confidence, you’d like to talk through an interaction you’ve had with another student, or anything else at all - please do book an appointment on our website or send us an email.
Being a mentor has given me the opportunity to work as part of a great team and make new lifelong friends. The satisfaction of knowing that you are helping other students is something I really enjoy and is really special. Mentoring has also helped me improve my overall confidence, as well as providing me with new experiences and skills which I can use once I graduate. Definitely recommend it!
Past Residence Life Mentor
University support services
We realise that living away from home can be challenging at times. We are here to support you and the University offers a range of services to help, including:
- Residence Life Team - supporting students living in University accommodation. Find out further information below.
- Wellbeing Services - providing a wide range of free advice, guidance and support for students struggling with their mental health, alcohol consumption, bereavement, and other important issues.
- AccessAbility – support for students with disabilities and long term health conditions.
- The Students' Guild Advice Service – offering advice on financial problems, academic issues, housing, etc. They can support you in applying for the University’s Success For All Fund and provide Food Bank Vouchers.
- Exeter Student Nightline – A student-run listening and information service
- The Multifaith Chaplaincy - working to serve the whole University community: students and staff, of all faiths and worldviews, whether religious or not. They can provide a safe place to chat about anything, including if you’re homesick, lonely, or questioning your sexuality.
The A-Z listing of support services provides full details and the Student Information Desk is a gateway to a range of services, and students can also raise queries via SID Online.
You may also find our Top Tips for Stressful Times poster helpful.
Health Services
The Student Health Centre is an NHS service for all registered students and is based in Reed Mews on the Streatham campus . You can register with the Student Health Centre online. The Student Health Centre recommends downloading the NHS App, which provides advice on accessing NHS services and a link to your GP surgery.
Students living at Rowancroft are advised to register with the Heavitree Health Centre.


